There is no 'Problem' with You, Embodying a New Belief!

Bringing the essence of this week’s client stories where there seemed to be a particular theme. As women, when anything goes wrong or we feel a negative emotion…..the first thought which comes to us is “I have a problem. I am problematic. And this needs to be fixed.”

Some statements which were said in my various programs with women this week,

“Why does this happen always with me. There is something wrong with me”.

“I always feel guilty when my daughter prefers her grandmom over me. There must be something terribly wrong with me.'“

“He left me and is marrying someone else. There must be something wrong with me, otherwise why would he leave me”.

The theme being every single woman in here thought she had a problem that needs to be fixed. I don’t need to provide a solution or strategy for you on these; you have the answers within you. I am here to expand your perspective, share some questions, and primarily remind you that it’s okay to let go of what has outlived its usefulness within your body, mind, habits, and outlook. To cultivate this new belief system for you to embody and replace the old.

First things first. When you treat emotions like fear, self doubt, guilt, judgement, unworthiness, frustration, rejection as something being wrong with you……you my woman actually start getting into a frenzy of ‘I need to be fixed’ energy. This energy does not serve anyone at all.

Step 1 - New Way of Looking into these Emotions

Can you name me any man or woman you know in this world who has not felt fear, self doubt, guilt, judgement, unworthiness, frustration, rejection? Just one person. You cannot, right?

We as humans are supposed to feel these emotions. And these are natural. Not problems. What has differentiated us from the successful leaders is that they accepted their emotions without labels or problems, let them feel those emotions and then slowly let them go. I know this sounds very difficult. The more you work with your nervous system to be calmer with these emotions, the more you will feel at ease.

Step 2 - Listen to this Audio

Let this audio be an activator for you with this new belief - https://open.spotify.com/show/6LeBGbp6SppQZLjhxZEQJn

Step 3 - Change your Language

Now that you know your emotions are not a ‘problem’. It is human to feel these. Next time when you are hit with these, what language will you use for yourself. Write a script for yourself. Read it when you feel like there is a problem with you. Feel invited to share it with me for fine tunings and insights from me to expand it.

Other Ways to Work on This:

Way 1 - The Rise Sisterhood

The Rise Sisterhood is not a solution to your problem....

It is rather a space for you to cultivate -

💥 A new/next level in your career which you are ready to step into
💥 A result in your career which seems to elude you
💥 The path to bridge a gap in your career which you are ready to cross
💥 Letting go of an old limiting belief and replacing it with a new one which you want to embody

And also you do not have a problem. As the world might let you believe. You my woman have a very big beautiful dream. A dream that you are working on, and with, and towards. And you want to be in a deeper relationship with the you who creates this and receives it with ease.

Hit reply to this email to know more.

Way 2 - Navigating Working Mom Guilt

A self paced program where you navigate guilt as not a problem rather an emotion. Building your nervous system to process it and release it. And this program is not public yet. For a very limited time, it is for only INR 555/-.

You can look at it here - Navigating Working Mom Guilt

I invite you to read and take on this email and see what resonates for you. Even read it a few times this week, and you will catch something new each time.

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​All woman are so fucking courageous in their soul that they are made to navigate this. I have never met one that isn't.

All women are so fucking unique, yet we can seem to unknowingly block how we feel and experience ourselves- when such depths of how we see, taste and be who we are genuinely is SUBLIME.

Your reply could be your micro step to admitting to yourself that you are ready to change the way you approach these times, your existence because you MATTER. It could acknowledge how your self-development journey is so committed, yet you have never celebrated it.

Enjoy......

I love you all.

Xx Pradnya xX

The juicy things happening in my life in upcoming weeks...

1. I will be replying to all of you who email me your insights on this newsletter.
   

2. For the entire month of March, I will be talking about self doubt on my LinkedIn. Peeling off more layers for you to navigate this emotion in a better way. We deserve to be liberated and lead a freer life! Join Soar Beyond Self Doubt here.
   

3. My most loved webinar ‘Unveiling the Patterns of Successful Women Leaders’ is happening on 26-Mar-2024. It is priced at only INR 555/-. Reach out on +91-7066216161 to register or know more.